We Are Engaged, But Im Having Doubts, Pls I Need Your Advice

Hello nairalanders, is it not funny and somewhat annoying how we can give good relationship advices to other people and we seem to be confused when faced with our own issues. Well I’m in that situation now and I need your help.

I am currently engaged to this lady and we have even done an introduction, we’ve been through the various phases of relationship together, the happy days, sad days, break up periods, make up times etc. I love her, but I’m having doubts as to whether I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

We are age mates but she looks older than I am already even before having kids. She has had to change her religion just to make the relationship work and I think I’m going through with these relationship out of pity for her sacrifices, I fear this pity would one day wear out and i’ll start resenting her and myself. Should I be worried about these feelings or is it just the normal cold feets guys get before finally saying the “I Do”. Pls help me out guys.

Will really appreciate if this can make front page, this is my first ever NL post.

Godspower Oshodin

Godspower Oshodin is the CEO of Solution Media Global Limited, Media Entrepreneur, Writer, Poet, Speaker, Author, United Nations Volunteer, President of Nigeria Bloggers Forum, Founder of Naija Gist and Gossips, and Co-Author of 'Global Seal of Integrity'.

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